Showing posts with label sustainable happiness doctor. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sustainable happiness doctor. Show all posts

Monday, October 13, 2014

Sustainable Happiness: Systematized & Automated



How can positive psychology help someone transition their own happiness from a mirage to a miracle?

How would our world be different if happiness, which is as basic as our water, food and air, became a human priority? What would change if each person were taught the basics of happiness like we learn the basics of mathematics?

There are many paths to the point of peace. This is one option.

The 5 steps to sustainable happiness were born from 18 years of experience helping others become happier.

When applying the process outlined here results have proved to be effective when traditional means of mental health failed.

This is a process that can be systematized and automated yet is made for the individual and can be moldable to each individual’s authenticity within themselves and in their lives.

The process begins with step one: empowerment.

This is a BIG FIRST STEP!  The user needs to want to change and make a difference in their lives.

The user listens and learns from sustainable happiness experts to the tune of a total of 90 years experience. 

There is a specific process outlined to educate on how to make the decision to be happy and why that is the first step.

After a short amount of time, the person feels empowered over their own happiness for the first time in their lives!  These experts make it easy to understand and implement IMMEDIATELY.

The second step utilizes scheduling software where there are specific positive psychology techniques scheduled in a morning, day & sleep routine.

Tools are provided for an improvement in positive thinking and living in the moment. These two happiness skills are sink or swim for anyone’s happiness.

As the user is learning how to apply positive psychology daily, the positive mood increases in longevity, depth of experience, emotional contagion in social network, and likely also an improvement in biological health and job performance.

The third step in the process is based in resiliency. Positive psychology offers tools of such to cope with life challenges.  This automation would provide real time solutions to real life problems so resiliency is increased exponentially.  Thus reducing time in unhappiness and increasing ability to bounce back fast or even become an Olympic hurdler never wincing at any of life’s challenges.

As empowerment, positive mood, and resiliency are the basics of happiness are perfected, the user can move on to more advanced states of happiness: contentment and bliss.

Step four, contentment kicks in and the user is guided through a specific step by step process to develop eudaimonia, lasting fulfillment. This is where specific activities are scheduled in the calendar for contentment development. Over time eudaimonia will grow and become a sustainable state of being independent of the emotional state.

The final step and most advanced state of happiness is bliss.  This can be scheduled throughout the day.  Two minutes of bliss whenever the user wants.

This systematized and automated process is based in expert guidance, a trademarked system, educational processes, easy implementation, authentic to each user.

Once happiness science is learned and implemented in a daily capacity benefits of happiness kick in. Sonja Lyubormirsky et al compiled a meta analysis of the benefits received by people who have experienced frequent positive mood in 2005.

In brief, life is better when happiness is a frequent experience.

Sustainable Happiness: Systematized & Automated.

Work in progress.


Dr Aymee Coget
Sustainable Happiness Doctor
Author of Forthcoming Book : Sustainable Happiness in 5 Steps
sfhappinessdoctor at gmail dot com

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Break into Bliss by Jumping through Fear

Jump through Fear.

The only way out is through.

Fear is forgetting everything is all right.

Fear is false evidence appearing real.

Your comfort zone is a safe place though it may not be the happiest.



Every day you are confronted with addressing your deepest fears.

Fear of success
Fear of failure
Fear of commitment
Fear of the truth
Fear of the future
Fear of the unknown
Fear of loss
Fear of scarcity

Whatever your fear may be, your fear is here.

Your fear is ever present in your decisions day in and day out.

To keep you in your comfort zone.

Your comfort zone has been built for years probably decades.

Your thoughts and beliefs about these topics of fear have probably traversed generations in your family lineage.

Fear of loss
Fear of success
Fear of commitment
Fear of the truth
Fear of change

The notion of fear is a stumbling block to your highest states of bliss.

This fear is keeping you in sedentary paralysis trapping you inside your semi impermeable bubble of life.

This is subconsciously guiding your every single decision.

Take this in for a minute.

Confront yourself.

What is the fear you have been letting rule your life.

Fear of success?
Fear of true love?
Fear of other’s judgment?

What is the fear that holds you back in your life?



Put a name on it.  

Call it out of the dark of your shadow so you can look at it straight in the eye.

The eye of your subconscious.

Ask yourself: Do I want this fear any more?  Do I want to let this fear go so I can move on with my life?  How is this fear serving my highest flourishing?

Take a moment to wrestle with the truth of this fear.

Examine it. Where did it come from? Is it even TRUE?!



When you enlighten your shadow you are shown that you are the one holding yourself back from achieving the highest path of life.

One in faith.



One in faith in yourself, your path, your inner knowing, your life.

Fear has been instilled at a rudimentary level in the reptilian part of your brain.

You live in 2014 where most live without harm in life and can consciously remove any fear you feel ready to release.

Fear is transformed into faith in Step 5 of my sustainable happiness program.  This faith then enables you to confront your realistic daily decisions in a way where you can achieve ecstatic states of bliss and joy beyond your wildest dreams.

The only way out is through.

Jump from the plane.
Commit to your love.
Address the truth.
Embrace success.

When you can break through fear and embrace your life based on the bedrock of faith is when you can achieve the highest forms of happiness known to humanity.

Stop dancing around your fear.
Stop making excuses for your fear.
Stop letting your false evidence appearing real run your life.

You can gain empowerment over your psychology and you can create change in your life with a simple decision.

Choose faith over fear.

Put your fear in its place.

See it dissipate in front of your face.

You are the one who put it in your psychology you can take it out.

Imagine what your life could look like without fear.

Imagine a lightness of ease and flow in your every step.

Imagine opportunities flying at you; all wanting you to embrace your life at the highest level.

Imagine your bliss being fueled daily as you grow stronger in building your faith while your fear simply evaporates.

You have real examples.

You have real life experiences with fear.

You have let the external world and the power of your subconscious mind control the experience you make for yourself in life.

You are making your own experience.

Make it with faith.

Make it with bliss as your fundamental essence.

How can your upward spiral grow from this place?

The sky is the limit when you walk the path of faith and bliss begets bliss.

You will never go wrong with positivity.



RELEASE YOUR FEARS

EMPOWER YOURSELF

CHOOSE FAITH OVER FEAR

YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE

Do you want to contribute to this conversation?

Dr Aymee Coget
Sustainable Happiness Doctor
Sfhappinessdoctor at gmail dot com
Author of forthcoming book : Sustainable Happiness in 5 Steps


Saturday, August 2, 2014

How to live a happy life for FREE in 7 Steps



Contrary to what you may think creating a happy life is an advanced happiness skill.

This is the final lesson in the Happiness Makeover leadership program after someone spends almost three months working on their inner self.

So when you have completed the ‘inner work’ it takes to maintain a frequent state of positivity, resiliency is in your blood, you are on a clear path for contentment and achieving consistent states of bliss THEN you can weave the web of a happy life around you to sustain this inner state even stronger.

The Happy Life exercise in the happiness makeover is based from a theory developed in 1966 and has withstood the test of time.


This theory espouses we have several categories in our life:

Socialization
Institutionalization
Habits
Reification
Knowledge
Language
Legitimation

It was 2004 when I fused what I knew from happiness science with the social construction of reality to indeed help others and myself live a sustainably happy life!

So here is a cliff notes version to help you start thinking about the happy life you want to create for yourself.

1. Who are you socializing with?

2. What institutions are you a part of and do they represent your greater value system?

3. What are the habits you employ everyday to uphold your happiness?

4. What is the knowledge you are consistently developing to further your happiness?

5. Have you converted to positive language?

6. What are the things around you and are they contributing to your happiness. Note – hoarders tend to be unhappy

7. How are you going to ensure this actually will work? What is your method of keeping up the web you create for your happy life?

As you become empowered over your own happiness, learn how to develop a frequent state of positive mood, build your resiliency to rapid speeds, are developing contentment and achieving states of bliss… the next level is to look on how you can create your happy life around you.

Would you like to contribute to this conversation?

Dr Aymee Coget
Sustainable Happiness Doctor
Author of Forthcoming Book : Sustainable Happiness in 5 Steps
 Sfhappinessdoctor at gmail dot com